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The Best thing about a Thai girls is………..(and some of the worst too )
The most alluring property of a Thai women’s, besides their shape, their hair, their personality, is their smile. Where ever you look, when you are in Thailand you will see Thai women smiling. Smiling,cute,attractive Thai women are everywhere.
Either they’re walking with friends, talking on the phone, standing at the bus stops, riding on motor cycles, they are always happy and always smiling.
Thailand women’s have the loveliest smiles in the world and it is a reflection of their attitude to life and the fact that they are always in good spirits. Just being around Thai women has an uplifting experience and their wonderful smiles play a big part in this. It is pretty unusual to a scowling Thai woman in public.( perhaps more common at home )
Now count how many women you see smiling every day where you live in your home country – chances are they are too busy complaining about everything to be able to!
You will almost never see a Thai women losing their temper in public. Even raising their voice is a very rare thing. Thai women have an amazing internal peace and calmness. They are not shy or meek but always in totally control and simply do not let things bother or affect them the same way that Western women do.
Western women will think absolutely nothing about complaining if something is not exactly 100% perfect, even if it means publicly berating shop assistants or sales staff. A Thai woman will quietly but effectively point out a discrepancy without getting all worked up about it.
So for me after 6 years of living in Bangkok and in the process of getting married to a Bangkok girl, the smile is the one overwhelming great thing about Thai women. Here is a list of some of the other good things and I have added a few less positive issues to give a more balanced view.
1 – Freedom: Thai women do not try to run your life, they expect you to do what you want to do, when you want to do it. It isn’t a problem that you want to go out with the boys, watch the game or have a poker night.
2 – Sex: Many western men complain that after getting married, their sex life disappears. Western women have a horrible reputation for withholding sex from their partners, or simply losing interest in sex. This simply doesn’t exist in Thailand, perhaps because Thai women know that there are millions of other women out there that are happy to accommodate, and any withholding of sex would be counter productive, and may result in leading their man astray.
3 – Beauty: Thai women are world renowned for being incredibly beautiful, with a petite figure and an exotic look. They also tend to take better care of themselves, and they age well. You don’t see Thai women getting married and gaining incredible amounts of weight or letting themselves go.
4 – Reconciliation: It doesn’t seem to matter how big of a fight you have with your Thai girlfriend, it almost always seems that it is totally forgotten within a few short hours. They don’t tend to stew on an issue for days on end, reconciliation after a fight seems to be much more simple in Thailand.
5: Femininity: Thai women may not be subservient, but they do embrace a roll of being the caretaker of the home, they do laundry, dishes, cooking and cleaning, without any complaints. They dress and act like ladies, and they put a lot of time and effort into their appearance, and overall I would say they have much better personal hygiene than western women.
6: Availability: There is no shortage of available young Thai women that are looking to meet their “prince charming”. Perhaps because there are large percentages of Thai men that are gay or transsexual, there seems to be plenty of women to go around.
7 – Approach-ability: If you walk up to a Thai woman, smile at her and tell her she is beautiful, she will never give you a rude reply. She might not be interested, but if she is going to shut you down, she will do it politely with a little class. This is a lot more than I can say for many western women.
1 – Money: It doesn’t matter whether she is a bar girl, or a “well to do” Thai girl, she is sure to demand a constant supply of money and gifts.
2 – Family: When you shack up with a Thai girl, it isn’t just her problems that you inherit, but those of her entire family. She will put her family first, always.. and your relationship will take a back seat when there is something going on with the family.
3 – Trust: Some people will say that you should never trust a woman, but this is probably even more true in Thailand. You have to be careful, there are countless stories of foreigners that get involved with a Thai woman and get taken to the cleaners.
4 – Communication: Unless you learn to speak Thai fluently, communicating with your Thai girlfriend can be quite challenging.Your relationship will suffer if you can’t communicate with your partner.
5 – Cultural differences: Thai culture is very different than western culture, and this may present problems for inter-racial relationships. Learning and respecting Thai culture is an absolute must, if you wish to have a successful relationship with a Thai parter.
6 – Jealousy: As much as Thai women normally allow you your freedom, they are also known to be insanely jealous. They often have wild outbursts accusing you of sleeping with other women, and they can be suspicious of any interactions with other women. When John Bobbit lost his most prized possession after his wife attacked him with a knife, it made headlines around the world, incidents like this are actually fairly common in Thailand.
7 – Cheating: Men in Thailand often have far more opportunities to be unfaithful to their partner than they would back home, however this goes both ways. As easy as it is for men to cheat on their girlfriends or wives, they aren’t the only ones sneaking around.